Monday, November 30, 2009
Traveling
We came up so I could go see a dentist, we could get the car checked out and a engine cut off switch installed, do some Christmas shopping, and have a mini vacation.
I went to the dentist early this morning and found out that I have a cavity and a root canal is required. They did the first part this morning and fortunately, since we were staying until Friday, will finish it on Friday morning before we leave. Then when we come back in January for our Regional Conference, we will stop by for a final permanent crown to be put on.
The car goes to the mechanic on Wednesday morning. They will do a good check out on it (something we didn't have time for when we picked it up the first time), install the cut off switch and hopefully have a roof rack installed the same day. Hopefully it will go smoothly - be praying, as things here are not always as simple as we hope they will be.
We are staying very close to one of the new modern shopping centers and over the next few days, we hope to get all Christmas shopping done. Jill will finally be able to get her hair done and I will get some much needed time with the kids - swimming, bowling and anything else we can find to do. I think we are heading to Entebbe to the zoo tomorrow.
Pray that this will be a relaxing time for us. Sometimes, trips to Kampala can be filled with a lot of driving (or rather sitting in traffic) and delays galore - just pray that we can get some quality time together and that we will all head home Friday, relaxed (at least I'll have pain medicine). We will try to update throughout the week, but please forgive us if we don't. Thanks guys - updates will be posted again soon!!!!!
Saturday, November 28, 2009
Cows (finale)
After tea we all joined in the church to continue the celebration.
It didn't take long for the kids to find them. Dara and Dade ended up running into the church to hide there. The kids just followed. I felt like a mother hen trying to shield her chicks from the outside world. Lou (a short termer here with us) helped me lead the kids in some songs they knew and some they didn't. Dara and Dade were in the middle of all them sitting on a bench. Finally, an older student helped the younger ones know not to touch their arms and hair. It wasn't easy on my kids, but they made it through. There may not look like many kids in the pictures but there were well over 100.
After singing and playing a game with them, we had lunch. I wish I could have taken a picture of Dade. He ate three pieces of chicken - one of them was a neck! I couldn't believe Joel handed it to him, but I was so impressed when Dade tore into it like it was KFC. I wish you could have seen him, I was so proud!
As we were loading up to leave, the ladies presented our team with beautiful vegetables and fruit.
Friday, November 27, 2009
Quick Update
However, we still managed to pull off an egg race, a three legged race, a piggy back race and the highlight - a good snowball fight (with casava flour stuffed in panty hose). Many commented that it was the first time they had seen many of those people laughing and having such a good time. It makes me tear up even now as I think about how close we have grown to people in just 4 months. It really did feel a little like Thanksgiving and judging by the smiles and warm "thank you's", I would say it made some feel a part of our family for a day.
Just so those of you back home can appreciate the ordeal......we only had one pork shoulder that the Hollenbecks left in their freezer. Thanks to a dear friend back home and the newly opened Pearl Supermarket (for the BBQ sauce), we were able to pull together a pulled pork recipie that made people want seconds. Looking at the table before hand, you would have thought that we were only expecting 20 or so. However, I just stood in the kitchen and prayed as people served themselves that God would stretch the food so that no one left hungry. In typical "God" fashion, our final arrivals were each able to have a helping of matoke, stuffing and a couple of vegetable squares. After serving the final person, we were out of food! Isn't God good!!!
Love ya'll back home and only wish we could have been with you for Thanksgiving. We are so thankful for you and look forward to the next one we spend at home with many of you. And for those of you wondering......couldn't get the Cowboys game or the Longhorn's game out here....but both won!!!!!!
Wednesday, November 25, 2009
Cows (part 1)
Daily Update - 91125
Monday, November 23, 2009
Daily Update - 91123
Saturday: don't really remember what we did - think we just relaxed and caught up on some much needed rest. Jill had a girl's night out with all the missionary women from around Mbarara - they do it about once a month and she really enjoys it.
Sunday: it was our first Sunday back at UBC in a couple of weeks. Kind of nice to just be sitting in a service and listening (and I always enjoy Pastor Enoch's sermons). Had a great meeting Sunday afternoon and then had a neat fellowship Sunday night at the Ward's. Grilled a goat that had been donated - John is a master on a flat grill. I think that will be my next project over here at our house - a new BBQ pit.
Monday: had a really refreshing meeting with Mike (our interim team leader). He has been on the road quite a bit and we are about to be gone for a week, so it was nice to catch up. I am truly blessed to work alongside the men on this team!
This week is pretty busy - tomorrow I will try to plan for a talk I have to do on Friday night. Wednesday we deliver 5 cows to the village as part of the Heifer Project. Thursday I will be helping Jill get the house ready for Friday. And...on Friday we have invited a LOT of people to the house for Thanksgiving. We are going to have a huge celebration. Jill has already had the kids making decorations and planning games to play. This was always a big holiday for us back home with both sides of the family, so it's nice to try and recreate it over here just a bit.
On Sunday, we head to Kampala for a much needed break, not to mention dentist visit for me. We need to have some work done on the car (just routine maintenance issues when you are driving on these kinds of roads) and have found a place very close to a "mall" so we can get our Christmas shopping done at the same time. It will be nice to get away from the cows for a little while and just enjoy time together as a family. Well....off to bed.
Friday, November 20, 2009
Daily Update - 91120
Friday's are usually our "trip to town" days. We run the errands that are easier to run together and the kids are usually forced along. However, today, our teammate Susan had to deliver some snacks to a school just down the road and invited Dara along for the walk. She had a great time while we ran to town with Dade. Even Dade seemed to handle the "trip to town" much better than normal. I guess even the two of them need a little time apart.
Jill surprised them by meeting some of the other families at the pool for an afternoon swim. The kids have been hoping for a day warm enough and without rain, so they could go swimming. I stayed behind at the house and prepared for our Bible study next week. Yes, you heard right, I actually prepared almost 5 days in advance!
Off to watch a movie with Jill and then turn in for the night.
Thursday, November 19, 2009
Bees
Pretty impressive, isn't it. I don't understand how they can accomplish anything while hanging upside down like that, but I guess they can. We'll try to re-bait the hive sometime soon and get them out of the tree so we can then move the hive away from the house.
Lastly, this little fella was sitting on the porch as I was heading back to the house. He lives on the porch (in a corner with the bikes and stuff). I call him a "snake with legs" and he is the reason we keep a rolled up towel in front of the door. I really don't mind geckos but if I can keep this critter out of the house, I'd be so glad.
Wednesday, November 18, 2009
Daily Update - 91118
We finally finished Richard's kitchen and I hope to have a picture soon for you. He is really proud of it and it will keep them dry while they cook. I managed to make it to Bible study and we discussed the Authority of God's Word. We were also able to give each of our students NIV Bibles which I think was a huge surprise for each of them. Many of them don't have a Bible at all or they have a copy of "The Good News." We just really wanted them to have something that they could call their own. It was a very neat moment. They will all come to our house on December 5th and we have asked each of them (it was kind of their idea) to bring a question about the Bible, Christianity, or just life that they would like to discuss and we will spend the day addressing it with them.
We did get some antibiotics that I started today which will help dull the pain until we get to Kampala on the 28th. We have decided to wait this long so we can make sure we are here next week for the delivery of the cows to the village. Just pray that the pain will subside quickly. I also got my laptop back!!!!!! It turns out not only did I have a bad CPU fan, but one of my RAM slots (not RAM, just the slot on the motherboard) had gone bad and had to be replace. No more shutting off mid sentence while typing - and they didn't even charge me for the latest repair - what a huge praise!
Tuesday, November 17, 2009
Daily Update - 91117
Today was just not all that productive. We did almost get a kitchen shelter built for Richard - we'll finish that tomorrow. Finally finished the Bible study for tomorrow night and caught up on some emails. Think I got my hands around a business curriculum I'm trying to get ready for a discipleship program run by some of our teammates. It will start in late January and I will be teaching every Friday morning. Should be pretty exciting - to help them focus on God through business.
That's it - tomorrow will be back to life on the farm and our late afternoon Bible study at the univeristy. Until then....
Monday, November 16, 2009
Daily Update - 91116
From that point on, I was worn out!!!! So, I decided to enjoy the day and slow it down some. I played battleship with Dade while Jill and Dara ran some errands. Once Jill got home, I went to start on the Bible study I was working on for Wednesday and ended up falling asleep and FINALLY getting a nap. Then woke up and went to celebrate a friend's 37th birthday. It was nice just to sit and visit a little. Now, I'm off to bed!
Welcome to life in Africa! Never a dull moment and never what you think it will be when you wake up. But, so nice to know that God is in control and that it is His timing and not ours that is important.
Sunday, November 15, 2009
Daily Update - 91115
11 years ago today, Jill and I were already driving to Seaside, FL for our honeymoon. So, how was the day after our 11th Anniversary? We woke up early, milked cows, distributed milk to neighbors, rushed to get dressed, preached at a local church and now we are back home. Jill has already gone down for a nap (which she rarely gets anymore), the kids are both down and I'm busy trying to get a Bible study pulled together for this week and planning a talk for a local high school.
By the way.....for all that have asked.....yes, we had a wonderful anniversary. We left the kids with Ruth, walked around town and enjoyed a nice Chinese dinner at a new restaurant. There was no General Tso's chicken, but the sizziling beef wasn't bad. I think the nicest part was just having the time to reflect on 11 years of marriage and talk about what's ahead.
Oh....and some teammates of ours brought back some cat food from Kampala for us. I think we have settled on Mikey for a name. He is settling in okay and is really a joy for the kids and for us.
Sorry for the randomness and short post with no pics. Just wanted to make sure something got posted today.
Saturday, November 14, 2009
Correction
Choices are...
1. Daya (rhymes and combines Dara and Dade)
2. Pepper (in memory of Diet Dr. Pepper)
3. Buddy (Joel thinks that's what we'll call him anyway)
4. Nemo (Dade just likes it)
5. Dallas (in memory of Texas)
6. Wangyi (it means "yes, I'm here" in the local language - Joel says it a lot.)
Behind me Joel and Dara are trying to call him "peno" - short for jalepeno. (Joel thinks Aaron will love it). I'm quoting Joel, "Jill, it's stuck. You can blog all you want, but the name is 'peno'." Please pray for me as I am the only one with any sense around here!
On a sweet note, today is our first date while in Uganda. Ruth is going to watch the kids while we go to some stores we haven't taken the time to see and go out to the new chinese restaurant we've heard good things about. We are celebrating our 11th anniversary!!! I am so blessed to be married to the greatest man in the world - even when he drives me crazy with silly names.
p.s. Now Dara and Joel are saying "kota" (like North Da'kota') should be his name. Dade's saying 'mouse'. Who knows what his name will be tomorrow morning?!
Friday, November 13, 2009
Daily Update - 91113
Thursday....went and picked up my laptop from the repair shop in town. Although it still seems to be having problems. Oh how I miss having access to PC parts to do the fixing myself. At least it's not a Mac (yes, that's a dig at all you Mac loyalists)! Spent a little time running into town with Jill and the kids for our weekly shopping trips, then spent some time trying to find my sermon notes on my computer before it would power off yet again. Wrapped up the day by heading out to check on some of our cows in a nearby village. All three were pregnant and are looking better than ever to send out to our new village in a couple of weeks.
Friday....started the same way I ended Thursday....went to look at another cow in the hopes of adding our fifth and final for Murissa - the village we will deliver to in a couple of weeks. Ran into town to return my laptop to the shop for yet another repair, chased down a short in our electric fence, got a tire fixed on the car, went with Jill and the kids to get some stuff for the SS department at our church, met with one of the students from our Bible study, and then had time to come home and get a short, but much needed nap.
Now, I find myself preparing for another sermon this Sunday and a talk to one of the local high schools in a week. I will be preaching on "Who Is A Missionary?" (you LBC folks have heard that sermon before - now I have to modify it for Africa) and the talk will be on hope. Think I will probably go back to the beginning of Jeremiah - it's a passage I have been wanting to use for some time, but I have not had the right opportunity yet. Pray that I will have wisdom and that I will be diligent in preparation.
Thursday, November 12, 2009
Swingin'
I told Dara a little over a month ago that the only way we would get a cat is if God brought it up to our compound. She kind of gave up praying for one, then last Saturday evening James comes and gets Joel. He was gone for awhile and then he came into the house carrying this little bundle in a towel. She was scared and nervous. We found out that her owner was our neighbor and he was happy to let us keep her. We know the Hollenbecks are not found of cats, and we will have to find her a home when we leave. But for the time being she has brought a sense of home for us (we have had at least one cat our entire married life). The kids have loved her and she is a good distraction from the thoughts of rats/mice. Hopefully she will grow up and be able to keep them out of the house.
Dara and I did take a moment to thank God for answering her prayer - even if not as quickly as she had hoped. He did bring a cat onto our compound...what a great God we serve! He is so thoughtful and loving!!!
(p.s. this blog will work for Joel's daily post - just in case you wondered) :)
Wednesday, November 11, 2009
Daily Update - 91111
We spent this week discussing the "cost of discipleship." While the discussion was wonderful, it was the last 5 minutes that meant the most. Several of the students shared how they just didn't want to come, but were so glad they did. The interesting part was that I had just shared with Jill earlier in the day, that Wednesdays are just hard.....there are a lot of times, I just don't want to go and can often find excuses - I don't feel good, I'm tired, and a whole list of other ones. But then I shared how even though I may feel like that, once I get there and start digging into God's Word with them, it becomes the highlight of my week. Amazing how God works that way isn't it?
My head is nodding - I'm tired and it took longer to write this than you would expect since I now have a 4-5 week old kitten trying to walk all over the keys. So, until tomorrow...
Tuesday, November 10, 2009
Daily Post - 91110
Here are a couple of pictures of his orphanage...
My impression from just a couple of hours is that Pastor Emmy is a very genuine man who has a heart to provide love to these children. I look forward to future visits and hope to take the kids some day so they can experience a side of Uganda that they have not been exposed to. Here is a final pic of one of the boys....I honestly didn't mean to take a picture of him, but I'm glad I got it. It is a true depiction of the faces of so many children in this country.
On an up note.....here is a pic of our newest addition....story will be told later....meet Rhea Skinner...
Monday, November 9, 2009
Daily Update - 91109
So, in saying that.....I am going to attempt a "Daily Update." It may just be a tid bit of information from the day - maybe something I learned, something one of the kids did, something new in life, or just a thought or simple rundown of that day. Some may be a sentence and some may be much longer, but at least I will try to send something. And for those of you wondering about the title, that is just the way I have done dates for some time now and I'm not changing because you don't understand it (although dad and Susan B will understand since they have been seeing it on my notes at the office for 15 years). The method to my madness is YMMDD - the last digit of the year (9), two digits for the month (11 equals Nov) and then a two digit date (02, 13, etc.). And before you ask, next year will go to 01109 - and it makes sense to me, so don't ask!
Now.......for ya'll that are like my wife (let your yes be yes type people), know that if I don't get a daily update posted each day, I am not going back to post later. And, I don't want any snide comments about not getting something posted. Understand, some days are village days and we won't get back until later; some days are just plain busy and the last thing I want to do at the end of the day is sit in front of the computer and think more; some days I just plain forget to even look at this screen! I will do my best, but as my wonderful wife will tell any of you - "Joel has big plans, but his follow through can use a little help!" So, be patient!
Now for today......this was our third night of very little sleep. Dade was sick on Friday night, a new kitten came into our lives on Saturday night, and Dara got sick last night. Some other posts will explain more details about each, but needless to say, the last three nights have left a lot to be desired in terms of actual time with eyes closed. And, truthfully, the last thing I wanted was another day of meetings (seems some days that's all I do).
However, this morning started off with a wonderful devotional time with the guys that work out here. We talked through some of Proverbs 10 and I am still amazed that they get excited about Monday morning devotionals after only three weeks. I followed that with another meeting with John (one of our teammates) and one of our other workers here. It turned out to be much more productive than I had thought it would be and I think a valuable time for this young man. And then, we had another meeting this afternoon. Truthfully, I just wasn't in the mood for it, even though we were meeting with some dear friends (the Mukasa's who we did our homestay with). And yet again, God used it as a time to refresh and not wear out. And that's partly because of their story....
The Mukasa's (Amos and Perry) serve here in Mbarara with Campus Crusade for Christ. They came on staff in 1991 and now, over 18 years later, are still faithfully serving. We talked about their ministry here and throughout, we were able to hear of many they have discipled over the years. The list is impressive and yet they take no credit - they give all the glory to the Lord. They have continued to serve even when support has been low and the burden of school fees for their children have seemed overwhelming. And yet, despite their circumstances you can always count on a smile and hug and a contagious reliance on God!
I only wish I could have more days of meetings like these! I am reminded after days like today, that God has called us here at this time to serve!
Saturday, November 7, 2009
The Longest Night
Thursday, November 5, 2009
Monster Crops
Dale asked about the bottom fields in one of his last emails. Well Dale.....how do you think it is doing? These are all beans....
This is Tony next to one of the bean stalks. Now understand.....Tony is 6' tall, so yes, they really are that tall!
This is a field of cabbage right behind the house. Tony was not too impressed with the size of these. You'll understand when you see his "Monster Cabbages!"
Monster, next to a regular...
Now, on to the Maize....again, Tony is 6' tall - so imagine how tall this maize would be if we could actually measure!
While I use to say, I didn't come here for Agriculture, I am beginning to realize that God did bring me here to work with these "businessmen." I don't know who teaches who - I would tend to guess, I am learning far more than I'm teaching.
One neat story to end with....back about two weeks ago, I told the guys that work out here that we would start having a devotional time each Monday morning and then a short prayer time together Tuesday through Friday. Well, this week I have been a little under the weather and while I did make it out to lead devotional on Monday, I forgot prayer time the last two mornings. This morning, I was in from milking and grabbing a quick breakfast with the kids, when Tony came to the door. I walked out and he reminded me that it was 8:00am and time to pray, especially since we had missed the last two mornings! How encouraging to see this small thing in my mind, become a huge deal to them! To see their desire to pray together as a team was a boost I needed. It reminded me that even when ministry doesn't look and feel like I think it should, that God is still using me in spite of me! Hope that makes sense.
I'll update soon on the group Jill and I are leading at the university. There are some exciting things happening in the hearts of these young students and I can't wait to share it with you!